Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze ya muntu batonga - gutera ubwoba umwana. Imitekerereze ya psyche ikozwe mu bwana, kandi ubwoba bwibanga burashobora kwigaragaza hamwe nibibazo nkibisanzwe. Kubwibyo, muriki kiganiro ntituzashushanya "inkuru ziteye ubwoba." Ariko tuzatanga ibitekerezo 5 bizasobanuka nkumwana muto kandi birashobora kumutera imbaraga zo gusohoka.
1 Mbwira ko ashobora gutakaza igikinisho akunda
Ibikinisho by'umwana ni indangagaciro zayo. Umuntu muto ntashaka gutandukana nabo nkawe - hamwe nuwawe, kandi byumvikane, ibyiringiro nkibi birashobora kudutera ubwoba. Niba yigeze kubona idubu cyangwa imashini yandika muri Bardaka, noneho ubwoba bwo gutakaza ikintu gikundiki gihe gikurikira birashobora kumuhindura kwikuramo ibikinisho kugirango ushake vuba.
Mbwira ko umwana ashobora gutakaza igikinisho
2 Sobanura ko ibintu n'ibikinisho bitazabona umuhanda "urugo"
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze y'umwuga baravuga - Sobanura umwana igitekerezo, shingiye ku byamubayeho. Muri iki gihe, urugero rukurikira ruzaba ingirakamaro mugihe umwana yagiye mubusitani / amasomo yishuri.
Abantu bake ni bo bashaka kuguma mu busitani igihe kirekire. Nibyo, ushobora kuba wenyine wibuka byibuze ibintu bimwe, mugihe ababyeyi bahise batinze, kandi wagombaga gutegereza mama cyangwa papa igihe kirekire, bicaye hamwe na mwarimu. Byasaga nkaho igihe kirambuye ubuziraherezo, kandi ababyeyi ntibazigera baza.
Noneho, umwana afite ubwoba ko atazagaruka. Reka ubwo bwoba butubangamiye, ariko bibaho hafi kandi byose biragaragara kuri we. Kandi bizafasha gushishikariza gukuraho ibintu nibikinisho.
Bazanye nabo bafite "inzu". Reka bibe igitebo / shelf / agasanduku, aho mubisanzwe ukunda ibikinisho. Kandi vuga ko ibintu bifuza kandi "urugo", kandi iyo basigaye batatanye, bumva bamerewe nabi kandi bababaye.
Mbwira ko igikinisho kitazabona inzira murugo
3 Zana ufite umugani. Reka intwari nkuru iba mibi kuko umwana adashaka gukosorwa
Igikorwa icyo ari cyo cyose kizaba cyoroshye uramutse ubihinduye umukino kandi ugashimangira. Zana ufite umugani, intwari nkuru izakenewe cyane nibintu cyangwa n'imyanda yatatanye umwana.
Urugero rero, mu gitabo "Umwana wigenga, cyangwa uburyo bwo kuba" umubyeyi w'umunebwe "by Anna bykov azana urugero rukurikira rwa" Umugani ".
Umuhungu wa Sasha yatatanye hasi yimpapuro, avuga ko nyina ko ari urubura. Yurubura, ntabwo yifuzaga gusukura urubura, urubura mu bihe bikomeye. Mama ukomeye cyane yabwiye Sasha ko Santa Santa Hea Ahantu habi kandi akababaro, akaba afite urubura. Kandi niba SASHA atusanya urubura kuri sogokuru, azaba mibi. Sasha yizeraga, Mama yashyize paki kuri bkoni, avuga ko shekuru Frost kuva aho azamujyana.
Uzane umugani
4 Mbwira icyo ukina Uwasukuye
Kandi hano ni urundi rugero ruva mu gitabo. Papa utuye yazanye inkuru ikurikira kumuhungu uhene. Nimugoroba, igihe umwana yasinziraga, ashyira ibikinisho byinshi imbere y'uruhu. Mu gitondo, igihe umwana arabyuka, ababona muri koridoni, baratangaye cyane. Ababyeyi basobanuye ko ibikinisho bifuza kumuvaho - ahindukirira nabi, ntabakuraho kandi agatanya.
Ibikinisho byinshi bya Papa bihishe hakiri kare kugirango umwana abone - ibikinisho bimwe bihutira guhunga.
Ihame rishingiye ku buryo bumwe bwo gutunga no gutinya gutakaza - ntibishoboka gukina no gukina ibikinisho bigenda. Ubu buryo buzagufasha mubwenge no kumwana wawe wunvikana kugirango usobanure - Usukura uweza.
Bwira umwana wawe gukina gusa nyuma yo gukora isuku
5 Erekana gutenguha
Kubabaza Mama - Gutinya umwana muto, kuko ni isi yose kuri we. Mbwira uko ubabaye kubera ko adashaka gukuraho ibikinisho. Ariko ntukabikene kandi ntukurure abavandimwe: umwana ntagomba kumva "mubi." Uramukunda, ariko kuba akwirakwiza ibintu - bitesha umutwe umubyeyi.