Isikhokelo sokukhetha umbala esineenkcukacha segumbi labantwana

Siyayithoba into yengqondo, ukubaluleka kwemibala eyahlukeneyo kwigumbi labantwana kwaye unike iingcebiso eziluncedo ekukhetheni umthunzi.

Ukwenza i-Inter yam yangaphakathi, kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo imiba eyahlukeneyo. Nguwuphi umbala kwindawo yokufundela kunokuchaphazela njani ukuphuculwa komntwana kunye nokuqulunqwa komlinganiswa wayo? Ungamnceda njani ukuba umntwana wakho alwe ubunzima okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukuze aphazamise kwiimeko ezimbi ngokukhetha umthunzi ofanelekileyo? Ukuzama ukuyila, ukungalibali ukuba i-Glointya yomntwana ayinakuhambelana neyakho. Abahambi ngemvakalelo yakhe kunye nemeko kwaye baqhubeke ngokusisiseko sale nto.

Khetha umbala wabantwana

Into yengqondo

Ukuwa kwemibala eyahlukeneyo

• mhlophe
• Ngwevu
• Lubhelu
• Luhlaza
• bomvu
• orenji
• Pinki
• Luhlaza

Iingcebiso zokukhetha

I-Psychology Psychology: iintsomi kunye nezibakala

Intsomi: Imibala ichaphazela konke okufanayo

Kwincwadi nakwimigangatho yengqondo yengqondo yanamhlanje, nakwincwadi e-Feng Shui, imigaqo efanayo yempembelelo yemibala enikiweyo.

Injani?

Umbala ngamnye unentsingiselo yayo kuphela kwinkcubeko ethile. Umzekelo, abantu baseYurophu, abamhlophe babonisa ubunyulu kunye nobumsulwa, kunye nomhlali waseTshayina - ukufa. Kwisiko laseTshayina, umbala wolwazi luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kwaye kwi-European-tyheli, iyenza umsebenzi wengqondo. Imibala ayichaphazeli ngokuthe ngqo, kwangoko ukuya kwi-fedconsing kunye ne-physiology, kodwa ngokuxhomekeke, ngokusingqongileyo kwenkcubeko. Kwaye ngokuziqhelanisa, ekusebenzeni, ukuxuba ulwazi olufunyenwe kuncwadi lwengqondo lwaseYurophu kunye nokupeyinta uShui, kuya kuba nefuthe elikhethekileyo.

Intsomi: Ngoncedo lombala unokufumana umntwana ukuba afunde

Umzekelo, umntwana ufunda ukuba akanandaba kwaye akafuni ukudlala imidlalo. Ukufuna ukumnceda, utshintshe umbala wengca ngobuso kumsebenzi obomvu, ovuselelayo. Kwaye ulinde iziphumo.

Injani?

Kule ndlela kungcono ukwala. Umntu ngamnye unemimoya ekhethekileyo, indawo yokugcina izinto, kwaye nganye nganye inikezela kwiminyhadala kunye neempembelelo. Ukuba umntwana uvaliwe kwaye unomdla wokujija emafini, amaphepha eWarderpaper kunye nefenitshala akayi kuyenza ibe ngumfundi obalaseleyo kunye nomphefumlo wenkampani. Ewe baya kukhuthaza umsebenzi, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ihlale ingaphakathi. Ngapha koko, umntwana uya kuze umshukumise ukuba anyamezele. Ingxabano yangaphakathi ingakhokelela kwi-neurosis.

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Ukukhetha kwabantwana

Imibala emhlophe yabantwana

Abantu abaninzi bamhlophe - uphawu lwethamsanqa, kulungile, ubomi. I-White iphethe ithemba, amandla kunye nokuguqulwa kwamandla. Ithoni ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye inesiphumo esiyingenelo kubantwana abavaliweyo nabangathengi, ukuzithemba kwabo kunyuka. Nangona kunjalo, eyona mhlophe iphambili inokubangela imvakalelo yokuba nokungafikeleleki kunye nokungaphezulu kwamanye, kunye nemvakalelo yokungasebenzi kakuhle kwegumbi. Kungcono ukuyisebenzisa ngokudibeneyo neminye imibala. Imhlophe ilungele abantwana kwisitayile seScandinavia.

Ngwevu

Abantu bakhetha i-grey abakholelwa ukuba ngoncedo lweemvakalelo onokutshintsha into, musa ukukholelwa ngokunyaniseka kwamava; Kukholelwa ukuba iimvakalelo mazibonakaliswe kuphela kwiimeko ezithile (kodwa hayi ngoku). Ukusuka apha ukuqina kwabo rhoqo, ukuthintela kwaye, ke, ukudinwa ngokweemvakalelo. Umbala ongwevu uzinzisa imeko engqongileyo, kodwa inye. Kwelinye icala, unentsingiselo engalunganga: Indoda kwigumbi elingwevu ivakala ikwanti, yahlukaniswa nabanye. Kwelinye icala, kwintsingiselo elungileyo, i-grey ihambelana nokuzinza kunye nokuzithemba ukuba konke okusemandleni phambili. Ngalo mninzi, iimpawu zempembelelo yomntu ophakathi kwemithunzi ezahlukeneyo ziqhagamshelwe.

I-SOOTE YOROTE. Ngapha koko, ibangela imvakalelo yoxolo, inkululeko, ibangela imeko yengqondo yengqondo yengqondo. Kwaye i-grey emnyama, ngokuchaseneyo, ibonisa ialarm ngelishwa, ihluthwe ngamandla angaphakathi, icinezela. Nawuphi na umthunzi weGrey akakhuthaze izenzo ezisebenzayo. Kwaye igumbi elimnyama le-grey labantwana elinempilo alilunganga, njengoko lo ngumbala wesi sifo, ukuphazamiseka, isithukuthezi, isithukuthezi.

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Lubhelu

Umbala ophuzini uyangqina ingqondo- kuyakholelwa ukuba ichaphazela ukukhula kwengqondo, ivuselela ukwanda kwezinto ezinomdla zengqondo. Kuyanceda ukoyisa ubunzima, kunegalelo ekunikezelweni kwengqwalaselo. Phantsi kwempembelelo yomntu ophuzi ngokukhawuleza wenza izigqibo.

Ityheli ivuselela uphuhliso lwentuindition kunye nobukrelekrele. Ubukho bakhe bokuchaphazela kakuhle zonke iinkalo zobomi bomntwana: Yenza umsebenzi wobuchopho, imozulu iphakamisa, inyusa isantya sembono, ebonakalayo. Ityheli ephuzi kuphela kwiimeko ukuba umntwana unemincili kakhulu.

Luhlaza

Igumbi eliluhlaza-igumbi lokuphumla. Unegalelo kuhlalutyo, uvuselela umnqweno womntu ukuba aziqonde, akukho nto ifunwayo kwaye engabizi ndawo. Indoda ephantsi kwempembelelo yohlaza iba imanyane ngakumbi-kungenxa yeso sizathu le nto ngaphambili iitafile zokubhala zaqiniswa ngendwangu eluhlaza, kwaye izibane zetafile zazinezibane eziluhlaza zeLamptades. Ukongeza, ulawulo lwe-Green Gloma lunegalelo kwimeko entle, linceda ekulweni ne-Insomia. Imizobo, iithoyi kunye neencwadi ezibophelelayo, ifenitshala eluhlaza yabantwana - into efunekayo ngumntwana.

bomvu

Ubomvu-umthombo wamandla, inika amandla, iqhekeza, iya koyisa. Umbala obomvu noBurgundy Actly Active ngenkqubo ye-nervous, ukonyusa uxinzelelo lwegazi. I-hypother kunye nengenamdla, abantwana abasebenzayo abaphantsi baziva ngcono kwi-Inter Umbala obomvu weendonga kwi nursery upost upost, kungcono ukongeza kancinci. Ngokubonakaliswa ixesha elide, lo mbala uchaphazela kakubi i-psyche yabantwana, ngenxa yoko le-ingaphakathi kunye nobukhulu bobomvu zinokubangela iintloko zentloko kunye nobusuku. Abantwana abahlala kwigumbi elinjalo bahlala bexambulisana.

orenji

Umbala ofudumeleyo, owonwabisayo nongamandla onke unazo zonke izibonelelo zobomvu, kodwa azithwali ubundlongondlongo, isebenza kancinci. Uhlala ebamba ithoni, unxulunyaniswa nokuzithemba, umnqweno wokufezekisa injongo. Phantse kusoloko kuchatshazelwa kukunceda, njengoko kuphucula imeko, ukuzisa iingcinga kumacala afanelekileyo obomi (ngokungafaniyo neBlue). I-Orenji inceda umntu ukuba azive ekhululwe kwaye asimahla, acwangcisa ithemba kunye nokungafikeleli kunxibelelwano. Njengoko bethetha abaphandi be-psyche yabantwana, o-orenji bathanda bonke abantwana. Inegalelo ekugayeni, kuqinisa umdla wokutya, kodwa uqhekeze ngolu mbala kwingaphakathi kunokubangela umsebenzi ogqithisileyo emntwaneni, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha nokuzihlula. Ke ngoko, kungcono ukuba ngaba ziinkcukacha ezimbalwa kwi-orenji yabantwana. I-Orenji inefuthe lokuphelisa abantwana abavaliweyo, linceda ukuba bazikhulule kuloyiko. Ivuselela ukuphuculwa kobuchule bokuyila.

I-Pink Colors

Ubushushu bale mbala iphosakele. Ipinki ekhoyo ingqina imfuno yomntu ozokhusela, malunga nokususwa kwakhe kubomi benene, ukhathalelo lwehlabathi lamaphupha, iintsomi kunye neengcinga eziphakamileyo. Inkanuko egqithisileyo ithi umntu okwishumi elivisayo uzijonga phantsi kakhulu, ngokweemvakalelo, i-aristocal, kunzima ukuyifumana kwilihlabathi elinamathele ehlabathini. Ukuba ufuna ukukhulisa umntwana wakho ngenkokeli, enamandla kwaye inzima, umbala onjalo kwigumbi lakhe awuyi kuhambela phambili.

Luhlaza

Iblowu ihola inkqubo ye-nevous, ibangela ukuba senze buthathaka ipulse, isusa uxinzelelo lwemisipha kunye nodani. Ngamanye amaxesha phantsi kwempembelelo yakhe kuza ukudinwa kunye nokudakumba. Kwiblue yoblowu inokuba lula kakhulu: umzekelo, i-pajamas, igumbi lokuhlambela, umda kwingubo.

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Iingcebiso zokukhetha umbala kwingaphakathi yabantwana

1. Kungcono ukukhetha i-gamut yokukhanya

Uyilo lwabantwana lokuphepha utshintsho olumnyama olumnyama, kuba imibala ehamba kakuhle yaba emnyama, ethintelayo kwaye isebenza ngokuqatha kwi-psyche yabantwana. Iitoni eziqaqambileyo, ngokuchaseneyo, ziya kucela ukuba igumbi linemo elichwayithileyo, iluncedo kakhulu kuphuhliso lomntwana. Isisombululo esihle kukusebenzisa izithunzi zendlovu ngegolide yegolide kunye neblue, ngokungathi sisibhakabhaka, iithoni zeendonga.

I-pastel gamma ilungele abantwana. Ihlaziya igumbi, yenza imeko elungileyo. Unokupeyinta zonke iindonga ngemibala eyahlukeneyo. Ke, udonga oluhlaza okanye oluhlaza, oluwela kwimitha yelanga, inciphisa ukuqaqamba kombala kwaye ibangela imvakalelo yokuphola. Udonga kumthunzi lungcono ukwenza i-peach okanye i-cream. Kunye nokukhuthaza umsebenzi wokuyila womntwana, abaqulunqi baseJapan bacebisa ukuba baxhonywe kwiindonga zemizobo yabantwana. Iya kunika igumbi indlela nganye.

2. Fumana indibaniselwano elungileyo

Ukugqitywa kombala ezimbini ezinomtsalane kwigumbi lomntwana kunokuba yimibono elungileyo kuyilo. Ukudityaniswa kwesanti kunye ne-Green Green Dilute Monotonity kwaye inika i-interlight uhlobo lwemvelaphi kunye nokupeyinta. Akukho nto imbi ibukeka i-pastel engwevu nge-orenji okanye eyahlukileyo kwi-lilac ethambileyo. Kwaye ukudityaniswa kwemveli kuluhlaza okuthambileyo ngepinki, njengomphefumlo wesibini, uvuselela ngaphakathi, ukuzalisa ngobomi, amandla nobucoceko. Jonga ukudityaniswa!

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3. Musa ukwenza igumbi liqaqambile kakhulu

Igama elithi "Bantwana" lisebenza kwizakhiwo ezahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo: zemidlalo, eziklasini, zokulala. Mhlawumbi, ayinguye wonke umntu onokutyelela umntwana amagumbi aliqela- njengommiselo, abantwana kunye nokulala, kwaye adlale ngokufanayo. Sukukhetha imibala eqaqambileyo ye-nursery kwaye ugcwalise iithoyi ezininzi ezinemibala emininzi, njengabantwana abadlala kumaziko okolonwabo. Ekhaya, uloyilo olunjalo luya kukhokelela kwinto yokuba umntwana aya kuvuya ngoku, uya kuba noomama abadinwayo ngotata wokuzonwabisa okutsha, akunakuba nakho ukulala. Ungalibali ukuba abantwana - okokuqala kwegumbi lokulala. Ngokudlala ijika ithoyi ekhanyayo enokuthathwa kwiibhokisi, emva koko icoceke.

4. Qwalasela iminyaka yobudala bomntwana

Xa usenza ubungisa, kuyimfuneko ukuba uthathele ingqalelo iminyaka yomntwana. Xa engaphantsi kweminyaka emi-2, indima ephezulu idlalwa ziingxolo zikanina, abona umntwana okhoyo emhlabeni. Ukuba uyayihlonela igumbi ukuze umama ave engalunganga (makayiyeke i-blue okanye ivuselele iblowu etyheli), emva koko unyana okanye intombi yakhe ingakhululekanga. Ngophuhliso ngokubanzi ebantwaneni, luncedo ukuba neentofongo zayo yonke imibala ephambili ukuze umntwana akwazi ngamagama abo.

Umntwana kangangeminyaka emi-3-7 uye wenza umbono wayo wehlabathi ngomdlalo. Ke ngoko, igumbi kufuneka licwangciswe ukuze lijike kwindawo yokudlala. Xa umntwana efuna ukulala, iithoyi kufuneka zisuswe kwiibhokisi, iikhabhathi. Kungcono ukusebenzisa izithunzi ezimbalwa kwigumbi likaPriskoler: Kunceda ukuba ikwazise imilinganiselo yemibala kwaye inegalelo ekuvelisweni kweemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo. Ifuna indawo yokubonisa intetho-kwikona yokuzoba eludongeni okanye yoyilo.

Kwiminyaka eyi-7 ukuya kweli-12, umsebenzi ophambili unomdla. Igumbi loqeqesho akufuneki ligutyungelwe ngephephadonga elinemodeli eqaqambileyo, njengoko iphazamisa kwaye iphazamisane nokugxila.

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