Indlu ibonakalisa umntu. Ukuba ufuna ukusindisa kakhulu, kwaye kwangaxeshanye chitha uhlaziyo kumgangatho oseleyo, thatha iingcebiso zethu ngenxa yezixhobo.
Ubuncinci sisitayela esikude konke, kodwa ngokuchanekileyo sinomtsalane wakhe: Umnqweno wokulula, ukucoceka kunye nokuthathelwa ingqalelo kwiinkcukacha ezizezinye. Kwangelo xesha, umda omncinci yindlela yokuphila kunye nengcinga: Umnqweno wokugxila kwisimo sengqondo esibalulekileyo, nesijongane nesimo sengqondo sayo kunye nehlabathi elijikeleze.
Ukuba uziva ngathi indlela enjalo isondele kuwe, kodwa ude wazi ukuba uyiqale njani, landela ezi cebiso.
1 Thatha isigqibo ngekhonsepthi
Wonke umntu uyabona umdaniso ngendlela yayo. Kwabanye, uthetha ukuthintela iyonke, i-ascetism ephakathi, emntwini - ukucoca okuhle kunye ne-rash, umntu ubona ubuninzi bokutya kunye nokusetyenziswa.
Yenza isigqibo sokuba loluphi uphawu oluthethayo kuwe, kwaye emva koko, yenza isicwangciso sokusebenza ngakumbi.
2 QAPHELA INDLELA YOBUCHULE UKUZALULELAYO
Into eqaqanjelwe yangaphambili. Ukuba uthanda nje abantu abaninzi, kunokuba sisizathu sokulungiswa. Kule meko, kungcono ukufuna uncedo kuMyili, njengoko ukulula kwesitayile sikhohlisa kakhulu.
Ukuba uzabalazela ukususa kakhulu, funda iindlela zokuphola igumbi, ngoku kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuthandwa kokucoca okunjalo.
Ukuba injongo kukuyeka ukuthenga kakhulu kwaye ubeke indlu kunye nobomi bezinto ezingafunekiyo, thatha isigqibo sokuba izindlu zilahlekile, kwaye uthathe imigaqo-nkqubo yokutya.
3 Lahla ngaphezulu
Nokuba yeyiphi na injongo yakho yokuba luncinci, kuya kufuneka ukhuphe izinto ezingafunekiyo. Uninzi oku akukho lula.
Qala ngezinto ezingenamsebenzi - ezaphukileyo, ezazingakhathali. Emva koko qhubela ezo zinto zisenokusetyenziswa, kodwa bona, nangona kunjalo, uthuli ngaphandle kwemicimbi.
4 Thenga kuphela
Ngalo lonke ixesha emi kwivenkile kwaye uthathe into ezandleni, zibuze umbuzo: "Ngaba ndiyifuna?". Nokuba ubona ikomityi yobuhle obungenasiphelo, khumbula ukuba unjalo, ngaba ikhona indawo ekhitshini kwi-tick enye.Ewe kunjalo, oku kusebenza kungekuphela nje kwizifundo zekhaya: ukutya, impahla kunye nokuzonwabisa kufuneka kuwele phantsi kwalo mthetho. Iya kwasebenza.
I-5 uthando lokusetyenziswa kwesibini
Ngaba awufuni ukuphosa okanye ukuthenga okutsha? Funda ukulungisa izinto ezaphukileyo, uthando lwesandla kunye nokuguqula okungafunekiyo ukuba luluncedo. Ngendlela, i-diy-izinto kwaye jikelele ikhosi esemva komgangatho wefashoni, ke uya kubulala enye i-hares ezimbini.
I-6 tyala kwizinto ezisemgangathweni eziphezulu
Ungalibali ukuba umdaniso ungapheleli nje malunga nokuphelisa izinto ezinqabileyo, kodwa malunga nokuhoywa kweyona nto ibalulekileyo. Ke ngoko, kungcono ukuya kwizinto ezithandekayo, kodwa izinto ezisemgangathweni eziya kuphucula amehlo. Vumelana, mnandi kakhulu ukuba ngumnini we-miltight ingaphakathi ezele zizinto ezithandekayo kunezinto ezithenjiweyo ezingakuthandayo kwaphela.
Kwaye uziva njani malunga nobuncinci kwiNdlu kwaye ebomini? Yabelana ngoluvo kwizimvo.