Ochwepheshe bezengqondo banamuhla baphikisana - ukwethusa ingane. I-Psyche yakhiwa ebuntwaneni, futhi ukwesaba okuyimfihlo kungabe sekubonakale nge-neurosis nezinkinga ebudaleni. Ngakho-ke, kule ndatshana ngeke sidwebe "izindaba ezesabekayo" ezivumayo. Kepha sizonikela ngemibono emi-5 ezoqondwa yingane encane futhi ingamshukumisela ukuba aphume.
1 Ake ungitshele ukuthi angalahlekelwa ithoyizi lakhe alithandayo
Amathoyizi wengane amanani ayo. Umuntu omncane akafuni ukuhlukana nabo njengawe - ngelakho, futhi, ithemba elinjalo lingakuthusa. Uma nje engakwazi ukuthola ibhere eyintandokazi noma umshini wokubhala eBardaka, khona-ke ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa yinto oyithandayo ngokuzayo kungamthobela ukuze kusonge amathoyizi endaweni ukuze athole ngokushesha okufunayo.
Ngitshele ukuthi ingane ingalahlekelwa ithoyizi
2 Chaza ukuthi izinto namathoyizi ngeke athole umgwaqo "ekhaya"
Ochwepheshe bezengqondo bathi - Chaza ingane umcabango, uncike ekuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe. Kulokhu, lesi sibonelo esilandelayo sizosebenza uma ingane iya emakilasini ezikole zasesigangeni / junior.
Bambalwa abantu abafuna ukuhlala engadini isikhathi eside kunokujwayelekile. Yebo, wena mhlawumbe ukhumbule okungenani isimo esisodwa, lapho abazali bebephuzelele khona, futhi kufanele ulinde umama noma ubaba isikhathi eside, uhleli nothisha. Kwabonakala sengathi isikhathi selula ngokungapheli, futhi abazali babengeke beze.
Ngakho-ke, ingane yesaba ukuthi ngeke abuye. Vumela lokhu kwesaba kuyakhathaza, kepha kwenzeka cishe futhi konke kucace kuye. Futhi kuzosiza ukugqugquzela ukususa izinto namathoyizi.
Wozani nina ne- "ndlu". Makube yibhasikidi / ishalofu / ibhokisi, lapho uvame ukugoqa khona amathoyizi. Futhi yisho ukuthi izinto zibuye zifune "ikhaya", futhi lapho zishiywe zihlakazekile, zizizwa zimbi futhi zidabukile.
Ngitshele ukuthi ithoyizi ngeke lithole indlela eya ekhaya
3 Woza nenganekwane. Vumela iqhawe elikhulu libe libi ngoba ingane ayifuni ukusulwa
Noma yimuphi umsebenzi uzobonakala ulula uma uyiguqula ube ngumdlalo futhi uthakazelise. Wozani nenganekwane, lapho iqembu elikhulu lizodingeka khona kakhulu ngezinto noma nodoti olwekaze ingane.
Ngakho-ke, ngokwesibonelo, encwadini ethi "Ingane Emele, noma ukuthi ungaba kanjani" umama ovilaphayo "ngu-Anna Bykov uletha lesi sibonelo esilandelayo se-" Fairy Tales ".
Umfana kaSasha wahlakazeka phansi kwephepha, wathi umama wakhe ukuthi yiqhwa. Iqhwa, vele, akafuni ukuhlanza iqhwa, iqhwa ngesimo sezulu esifudumele. Umama ovelele kunabo bonke watshela uSasha ukuthi uSanta Claus kwenye indawo ebuhlungu nosizi, uyantula iqhwa. Futhi uma uSasha engaqoqi iqhwa kogogo nomkhulu, uyoba mubi. USasha wakholwa, futhi umama ubeke iphakethe kuvulandi, ethi isithwathwa ngumkhulu lapho sizomthatha.
Woza nenganekwane
4 Ngitshele ukuthi yini edlala yona edlalayo
Nasi esinye isibonelo esivela encwadini. Ubaba wokuhlala weza nendaba elandelayo yendodana evuthayo. Kusihlwa, lapho ingane ilele, yabeka amathoyizi amaningana phambi komnyango wokungena. Ekuseni, lapho ingane isukuma yawabona ephaseji, yamangala kakhulu. Ababelethi bachaza ukuthi amathoyizi afuna ukusuka kuye - ujikela kabi, akabasuli futhi amaqabunga ahlakazekile.
Amathoyizi amaningana obaba afihle kusengaphambili ukuze ingane ithole - amanye amathoyizi asheshayo asevele abalekile.
Umgomo usekelwe unomqondo ofanayo wobunikazi nokwesaba ukulahlekelwa - akunakwenzeka ukudlala futhi udlale amathoyizi nje ahamba. Le ndlela izokusiza ngokuhlakanipha nakumntwana wakho oqondakalayo ukuchaza - lowo ohlanza lowo ohlanza.
Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi idlale kuphela ngemuva kokuhlanza
5 Khombisa Ukudumazeka
Ukukhubekisa umama - wesaba ingane encane, ngoba ungumhlaba wonke kuye. Ake ungitshele ukuthi ucasukile kanjani iqiniso lokuthi akafuni ukususa amathoyizi. Kodwa ungapheli ngokweqile futhi ungahehi izihlobo: ingane akufanele ayizwe "kabi." Uyamthanda, kepha iqiniso lokuthi usakaza izinto - wakhungathekisa umzali.